Body Image

[Tami Bi]

I'm doing some research on body image and I just wanted to know what your opinions are. For example, what are the main factors that causes people, especially women, to change their body image. We all come in different shapes and sizes and we all have our perks. Does being thinner mean you're more attractive? How do you consider someone to be fat? Those are just some of my questions....feel free to say what you need to say :)

[Helen Avunjian]

I think as human beings we're very much dependent upon peer approval and acceptance, and unfortunately I think a lot of this applies especially to women. What women strive to be is what those around them will commend, admire, and even envy. Therefore, that which is set or claimed to be commendable and something to strive towards, particularly body image, is what women seek to become - so long as there is a general consensus. It would be interesting to me personally to see what women would really look like or hope to look like if there was no way of knowing what was "in" or the general nature of mass opinion. Its sad to see so many women desecrate themselves and their health in pursuit of something that is vastly volatile and hinging upon the spirit of the times.

[Liza Chio]

I agree that women base what is considered the desirable body image according to what their peers deem attractive. Women (not all) feel that they need to fit ideal beauty standards in order to have self-confidence. While I can simply state that "outside appearances don't matter, it's who you are on the inside that really counts... etc., etc.," that would be very hypocritical of me. I admit that I do feel conscious about my appearance from time to time. I envy girls that are naturally skinny and beautiful, while I have to restrain myself from eating too much or I'll blow up like a cow. Nowadays, I'm trying to get over this, which can be hard. I would love it if i can just feel 100% comfortable with myself and live a healthy lifestyle. I'm not there yet, but you bet I'll work my ass off to get there.