responding with another though about your post on my page...
I'm glad you don't feel judged here. That's one of my hopes with the wdydwyd question. It's a neutral question. We all have many reasons for why we do what we do... some we may be proud of, others we might not be. It's always a mix. I think it's just good to be in touch with all the various reasons.
You know, some people do hear "why do you do what you do?" as judgmental... but that just means there is something in them that is making them hear it that way.
yeah, judgment is such a toxic thing often. i hate feeling judged too, and it makes me run the other direction.
i think when people share stories that are about more vulnerable things, that it frees other people up to realize that they're not the only ones... it can be powerful.
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I'm glad you don't feel judged here. That's one of my hopes with the wdydwyd question. It's a neutral question. We all have many reasons for why we do what we do... some we may be proud of, others we might not be. It's always a mix. I think it's just good to be in touch with all the various reasons.
You know, some people do hear "why do you do what you do?" as judgmental... but that just means there is something in them that is making them hear it that way.
i think when people share stories that are about more vulnerable things, that it frees other people up to realize that they're not the only ones... it can be powerful.